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On Saturday March 17th we had the opportunity to co-sponsor our first match event of the year with SWAN (Pennsylvania Statewide Adoption and Permanency Network). This Philadelphia-based match event focused on older children (10+). We returned to beautiful Citizens Bank Park, home of the Phillies for an eventful day. We had a wonderful turnout of children and families. Most of the youth and families arrived feeling excited and a bit nervous. This mixture of feelings is normal for an event such as this one. With help of our wonderful facilitator Josh, we began doing activities to help ease the group into the day.

The day began with separate meetings for the families and the youth. In these smaller groups, the participants met one another, got an overview of the day, and a chance to get their questions about the day answered. Our Master of Ceremonies, Josh, led the youth and families through a variety of icebreakers and team-building games. These started off as a way to get the group comfortable with one another, and then grew as opportunities for everyone to get to know each other on a deeper level. The kids and families had fun completing the activities together. After a morning full of activities, we enjoyed a buffet style lunch with Philly Cheesesteaks, and a surprise visit from Phoebe Phanatic. Phoebe and the youth took a surplus of group photos in our photobooth, trying on a variety of props and poses.

At the end of the day the group was surprised with a “behind the scenes tour” of the stadium. Afterwards, the youth participated in an activity we call “Everyone Has a Voice.” This event highlights the youth in attendance. The youth and Josh sit in a circle, while all adults sit around them. The adults are asked not to respond or react to answers, and allow the youth to share openly without judgement. We wrapped up the day with ice cream and smiles all around!

Our most generous long-term relationship is with Wendy’s, an organization whose values highlight "Give something back". With them, you can support our work by going into your local Philadelphia-area Wendy’s and buying a key tag for $2. This entitles you to a FREE Jr. Frosty with each purchase throughout all of 2018 and proceeds benefit NAC. This fundraising vehicle has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for the National Adoption Center over the years. Sales of the key tags, which began January 1, runs through March 4th.

Wendy’s is also the premier sponsor of our annual Celebration of Family Gala and our Fall Golf Tournament. Anthony Romeo, president of the Wendy’s Philadelphia Co-op is a NAC board member. We are eternally grateful for their support and hope you’ll frequent their restaurants as you support our mission to find adoptive homes for children and older youth languishing in foster care. Dave Thomas believed strongly in adoption and his legacy is carried on to this day by the great folks at Wendy’s. We would be hard-pressed to come up with a more generous partner than Wendy’s!

Hello everyone! My name is Sami Rovins, and I recently joined the National Adoption Center’s team as an Administrative Assistant. I am thrilled to be assisting in the planning and implementation of three Matching Events for older youth to meet potential adoptive families in the state of Pennsylvania!

I have been working in the field of nonprofit development, communications, and fundraising for four years, but the world of adoption is entirely new to me. As I walked to the NAC office on my first day, I worried about how much I had yet to learn. However, over the course of my first month at NAC, I have found my new colleagues to be incredibly welcoming, patient, and supportive. I’ve been pleasantly surprised by the kindness, dedication, and humor my coworkers bring to NAC’s office. As a result, my first weeks at NAC have already been an enormous learning experience.

I am so excited to witness as our Older Youth Matching Events develop and take shape. I felt very encouraged when I learned recently that NAC’s 2017 events have already produced successful results for at least two youth attendees. I’m looking forward to seeing the results of this year’s Matching Events, and looking forward to my future as an Administrative Assistant at the National Adoption Center!

Hi everyone! My name is Naomi Goldberg, and I am excited to say that I am completing an internship with the National Adoption Center! I am a senior Human Development & Family Studies major from Pennsylvania State University. The HDFS program has helped me quickly realize my interests in human service organizations, counseling, advocacy work, and social work. Post-graduation I hope to get my MSW, and work with youth in foster care specifically targeting professional development and independence skills. My love for working with youth in foster care helped me find myself working with the National Adoption Center, which I think is a perfect match for me!

In my first day I was able to explore and expand my knowledge of the foster care and adoption by becoming familiar with resources and literature that is available to not only me and the staff, but as well as inquiring families. These cover a range of topics from things as broad as “how do I get started”, to as complex as exploring the attachment style of adopted families. It was incredible to have such a wealth of knowledge available to me so quickly.

I was also able to have hands on experience brainstorming potential Wednesday’s Child film sites based on youth unique personalities and interests! This was amazing, because not only did I get to take a closer look at the people I will be working with in the next couple of months, but also allowed me to think creatively about places within the city that could be a perfect match for prospective shoots!

I felt like I had so many amazing opportunities and learning experiences with just one day, I am ecstatic to see what the rest of my experience with the National Adoption Center holds!

Did you know? Adoption matching events bring results! Last June, at our National Adoption Center/SWAN Western Pennsylvania matching event, two youth connected with families that attended.

Over the course of the summer and into the fall, those youth and families continued to get to know one another through exchanging information and visiting. One of the youth moved in with his new family and hopefully the second youth will move in soon. (Sometimes adoption happens quickly and sometimes there is a need to move ahead cautiously.) What is most important in that we continue to look for permanent loving homes for all of our youth. They all need and deserve it!

Please think about joining us at one of our events. Our Pennsylvania ones will be held on:
March 17th (Philadelphia area)
June 9th (Western PA)
October 6th (Central PA)

Families need a completed family profile/homestudy in order to attend.

More information is available by contacting me, Julie Marks, at pateen@adopt.org or 267-443-1875.

We would love to see you there & events in other states will be announced soon.

As we prepare to go into the second half of our fiscal year, we have a great deal to be proud of. The National Adoption Center will celebrate its 46th anniversary in 2018 and in that time we’ve found forever families for more than 24,000 children who would otherwise have languished in foster care. We continue to be a leader in adoption technology and have recently held a series of child welfare roundtables to help us understand even better how technology can help to get more children adopted. We’ve redoubled our communications efforts, resulting in new promotional materials that best explain the plight of these children and youth, and hopefully, encourage people to adopt them. Our weekly features continue to run on television, radio and in print, each highlighting one of ”our kids”. Nearly sixty percent of the children we feature end up placed in adoptive homes. Social media, of course continues to be a mainstay of our efforts.

Programmatically, we’ve been busier than ever before, with plans to hold at least seven Match Events, a proven recruitment tool. Our Wendy’s Wonderful Kids recruiters continue to work closely with their caseloads, mining the files to see who out there may become a forever family.

We are excited to announce that we are planning three older-youth matching events in Pennsylvania for 2018!

The dates and locations are:

    Philadelphia area on Saturday March 17th
    Western Pennsylvania on Saturday June 9th
    Central Pennsylvania on Saturday October 6th

Older youth matching events bring youth, ages 12 and older, together with families interested in adopting kids in this age group. Families need to have a completed homestudy in order to participate. We’ll spend the day together getting acquainted, finding out what we have in common with one another and generally having fun.

There is no cost to attend these events. Families in the past have said how much they enjoyed the chance to meet kids “live and in person.” Don’t miss out on this opportunity to meet an amazing group of kids who are in need of permanent, loving parents.

Want more information or to be added to our invitation list? Please contact Julie Marks, Older Youth program manager, at pateen@adopt.org or 267-443-1875.

Hi everyone! My name is Taylor Rotolo and I am the new Wednesday’s Child Coordinator/Adoption Coordinator at the National Adoption Center. I’ve been so thrilled to begin contributing to the fantastic team here who work tirelessly to build families and create meaningful community connections.

On July 11th, I arrived at AFC Gym in Bala Cynwyd, PA for my first Wednesday’s Child taping. I was a bit nervous, I will admit, but once I arrived I was met by a very welcoming community of all involved: the staff at AFC, Paige Roller (former WC coordinator) who showed me the ropes, the fantastic eleven year old child and his friendly social worker, and Vai Sikahema and the NBC team. Together, we went into a room with workout equipment.

Vai and the child set up some jumping blocks and practiced reaching for new heights together. The child also got right onto the rowing machine, seeing how far he could go that afternoon. It was in this setting that the child and Vai connected, talking about why family is important, what love means, and what our goals are in life. The child shared his dream of finding a forever family, and that it’s important to have a family in order to have people that you love and who love you back unconditionally. He said love looks like spending time together, eating meals together, and having fun together. The child shared his dreams of becoming a football player and was truly thrilled with the opportunity to spend time with Vai, a former player for the NFL.

We were then joined by Carlos Bradley, a trainer at the gym and a former football player for the Philadelphia Eagles, who showed the child the ropes of weightlifting machines, proper pushups, and the determination, grit, resilience, focus, and good character it takes to become a professional athlete. The child was all smiles – truly soaking up the experience, wisdom, and love shared with him that afternoon, as I was soaking up all that was shared with me. The commitment that the community makes to the Wednesday’s Child initiative is profound and inspiring. It is beautiful to see so many folks come together each week to support a child’s dreams of finding a forever family, and also plan their perfect day. I am thrilled to join this team and look forward to the learning I will experience, the hearts I will witness, and the adventures I’ll be sure to embark on with Wednesday’s Child and the National Adoption Center.

contributed by Robyn James, Development Intern

Before interning at the National Adoption Center (NAC) I had never heard of Wednesday’s Child, so when I learned more about it I was excited to join the team for a taping. The day started out with me walking to The Art Institute of Philadelphia to meet up with my co-workers, however when I got there I couldn’t find anyone. After a couple minutes of waiting and walking around the building, I received a text saying that the venue was changed to the Philadelphia Culinary Arts School. Seeing as though I’m navigationally challenged I nervously set out to the new destination hoping that I wouldn’t get lost. About 20 minutes later, I walked into the Culinary School sweaty, hot, and relieved I made it there without any problems. Thankfully I got there right on time.

I walked into the kitchen and took a seat between two of my co-workers. We watched as Franklin ---the teen being featured--- was helped into his apron by the professional chef. A couple moments passed and then it was “lights, camera, action!” The chef announced that he and Franklin would be making homemade pasta. I’d never made homemade pasta or seen it be made so I was probably as excited and intrigued as Franklin was. For each step, the chef did a demonstration and then Franklin got the opportunity to try it out himself. With the help of TV magic the pasta was finished in about 15 minutes and Franklin got to eat his creation. From the smell and the way he devoured it, I’m sure it was delicious.

When the cooking was finished, it was time for Franklin’s interview. He was very shy and during the questioning glanced over at his social workers for reassurance. He was asked about what an ideal family would be for him, his definition of a family, among other things. While watching, I realized that he had probably thought about the answers to these questions millions of times. Listening to his answers made me appreciate the things I take for granted in life. I’ve never known what it was like to not have a family and the love and security that come with which they come. So, imagining a life without it was heartbreaking. I truly hope that this feature on Wednesday’s Child grabs the attention of the family Franklin is searching for and results in an adoption.

Overall, I had an eventful day and my experience at the taping helped me to better connect with the work I do as a Development Intern. Since I work in an office and never see the children, it was refreshing to see a real-life reminder of the important and positive role of the National Adoption Center as well as Wednesday’s Child. I’m excited to watch the finished segment as well as relearn how to make home-made pasta (by the time I got home I forgot the instructions). I hope you’ll watch the segment when it airs but if you miss it, don’t worry, you can visit NBC10’s website to watch Franklin’s segment and check out previous ones too!

What is an Educational Reconciliation Specialist? What does he or she do? An Educational Reconciliation Specialist is a person that works behind the scenes of the reunification process to reconcile families. In reality, most judges dislike removing children from their birth family and disconnecting the child from those they naturally have an attachment to. To foster and strengthen this bond judges like to refer families to an intensive therapeutic day program that will monitor the family and give those actively involved a 360 degree image of how well the family does at meeting their goals. The family is helped by a team of professionals with one of those professionals being the Reconciliation Specialist. The Specialist works closely with the family to help them achieve their goals and through therapeutic techniques increase the bond of the family. Does this method always work? Not all the time. There are many factors that cause a strain or present a significant challenge to the family such as trauma or the family’s willingness to meet their goals. In some cases the barriers a family might face is too great of a challenge and the primary goal is to do what is healthiest for the child.

What happens next is adoption. Before becoming an Adoption Coordinator and Recruiter here at the Center, I was an Educational Reconciliation Specialist. Like others, I would always wonder what happens next. What does adoption look like and is it different from what is seen on Television or Lifetime movies? The answer is yes! As a Coordinator and Recruiter my focus is the child and doing what is in their best interest. Through a gentle process I visit with the child/ren and take the time to learn who they are. Their likes, dislikes, things that make them happy, smile and encourage them see a happy future. As I learn about the child/ren I collaborate with a team of professionals to help that child find a forever family.

There is a lot to the adoption process that most do not see or are unaware of. There are some programs accessible and recommended by judges to be used as a resource before children are removed from their birth parent. Through my journey I have had the opportunity to meet some really great families who were reunified their children as well work with some really great children to help them find their forever family.

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