The Cost of Adoption
You may be shocked to learn that there are few costs to adopting a child. Or you may be surprised to discover that not every adoption costs thousands of dollars.
Homestudy and Updates
If you work with a private agency, you will probably be asked to pay a fee for your homestudy. This fee may range from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. Agencies may also charge for updates or addendums to your homestudy, which are required every one to two years. Fortunately, there are many ways to reduce and even avoid those fees:
- Adopting a Waiting Child
- Foster Adoption
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Employee Benefits
- Sliding Scales
- Payment Plans
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
- Tax Credits
Criminal Clearances
Criminal clearances are required as part of the homestudy process. Required criminal checks may include:
- Federal (FBI) Criminal History
- State Police Criminal History
- Child Abuse Clearances
- Domestic Violence or Sexual Offense Clearances
- Fingerprints
Usually the family must pay for background checks required by its state. They are not generally expensive but do vary from state to state. Try these ideas to pay for the clearances your state requires:
Parent Preparation
Many adoption agencies and many states require that families complete adoptive parenting preparation classes or training. There may be no fee, as a public or private agency may cover this cost, especially if adopting a waiting child. If not, this training may be included in the cost already paid for the homestudy, or the family may be expected to pay for it separately. Here are some possibilities for reducing or eliminating this cost:
- Foster Adoption
- Purchase of Service
- Reciprocal Service Agreements
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Employee Benefits
- Sliding Scales
- Payment Plans
- Military Reimbursements
- Using New Technology
Travel
If you adopt a child who lives in a different state from the one in which you reside or even one who lives at a distance from you in the same state, you and/or the child will travel for pre-placement visits. When you are adopting a waiting child, travel costs are often, but not always, paid by the child's agency. Here are some other possibilities:
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Tax Credits
- Employee Benefits
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
- Using New Technology
Post Placement Supervision
The period after the child comes to live with you but before the adoption is finalized must be supervised by a social worker. There is a charge for this service. If you are working with a public agency, it will probably cover this cost. If you are working with a private agency, this fee may be included in your agency's general fees or it may be separate. Here are some ideas for ways to cover the cost:
- Adopt a Waiting Child
- Foster Adoption
- Purchase of Service
- Reciprocal Service Agreements
- Employee Benefits
- Sliding Scales
- Payment Plans
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
Legal Fees
Attorney Fees
An attorney is needed to finalize any adoption. In the adoption of a waiting child from the foster care system, this will probably be the only step for which you will need to pay a lawyer. He or she will act on your behalf, reviewing and filing legal documents and representing you in court. You have several potential sources for funds to pay your attorney:
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Employee Benefits
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
- Tax Credits
Court Costs
When an adoption is finalized, court filing fees must be paid, usually by the adoptive family. There will also be fees charged for documents issued by the court, such as an adoption decree or amended birth certificate. These costs may be minor, but will vary from one area to another. To find out what court costs to expect in your state or county, contact your state adoption specialist. Try meeting court costs with these suggestions:
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Employee Benefits
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
- Tax Credits
The Unexpected
Miscellaneous Fees
Miscellaneous fees may include:
- the cost of a required medical exam for the prospective parent(s), as part of the homestudy
- travel to and from your agency's office
- obtaining documents, such as your own birth certificate
- taking time off from work for homestudy meetings and visits with a child
- child care for children you already have during meetings, parent preparation classes or visits
- photocopying all paperwork for your own records
While each of these may cost little by itself, little costs can add up. Try these ideas:
Unexpected Expenses
While they are unlikely, unexpected expenses can occur. An agency may close its doors. Or a family may need to move to a different state due to a job or military transfer, which might necessitate starting the process all over with an agency in the new state. Sometimes agencies increase fees for parts of the process, such as an update for a homestudy. If the unexpected happens, one of these may help:
- One-Time Non-Recurring Expenses
- Tax Credits
- Employee Benefits
- Payment Plans
- Loans and Grants
- Military Reimbursements
Raising Your Child
Once your child or teenager comes home, you take on the ongoing financial responsibility of raising him or her. In addition to the basics, you'll want to provide some extras, and there may be costs you haven't considered. And check out these sources of assistance:
- Adoption Assistance
- Sliding Scales
- Payment Plans
- Scholarships
- Tax Credits
- Employee Benefits
- Military Reimbursements
- Using New Technology
Remember that for a U.S. waiting child you should not be asked to pay high fees. When you do encounter fees...
- Compare fees among agencies and, when the time comes, among attorneys.
- Clarify in writing the fees that are expected and what they cover.Use the suggestions provided in this section to minimize fees.
- Clarify when payments should be made. Don't pay everything in advance.
Keep photocopies of all paperwork and keep receipts for all expenses.


